Julie Doyle Cullen

Press & praise

What readers are saying

Responses from readers who have lived with this book — and recognized something of their own lives in it.

"Julie Doyle Cullen writes about grief the way the best memoirists do — with humor intact and sentimentality held firmly at bay. This book is honest in the way that only love can make you honest."

Reader reviewGoodreads

"I read this in two sittings and cried in both of them. Not because it's sad — though it is — but because it's so true. Cullen captures the absurdity of caregiving alongside its tenderness without flinching from either."

Reader reviewAmazon

"Three women, three generations, one impossible year. The structure sounds simple but the execution is anything but. Cullen moves between voices with real grace, and the humor never feels like a dodge — it feels like survival."

Reader reviewBarnes & Noble

"What strikes me most is how Cullen refuses to make her mother a saint or a symbol. Suzanne is a person — complicated, funny, difficult, beloved. That specificity is what makes the grief land."

Reader reviewBookshop.org

"I gave this to my book club expecting a quiet read. We talked for three hours. There is so much here about what families owe each other, what we can ask for, and what we simply absorb."

Reader reviewBook club reader

Media inquiries

For press, interviews, and book club visits

Julie is available for interviews, readings, and book club conversations — in person in the Detroit area or virtually anywhere. Reach out directly.